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Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Homegrown for the Holidays Pt. 1

O.k. so, before I get to my main point, let me quickly mention this....The Leo Family Coat Drive....with Gavin in "Kindergarten", thus officially labeling us a "Homeschooling" family...we thought that an annual holiday service project would be right for our family. We decided to hold a Coat Drive...which basically amounted to us sticking fliers in our neighbor's mailboxes asking for them to donate used coats that we would, in turn, donate, to those in need in our area. Well...last Saturday, we went around and collected the coats...then Chrissy and the kids spent the last couple days using this outreach as a teaching tool.....ethics, Bible, math, graphing....Go HomeSchool!!

Graphing the number and type of coat we received.


Our Big Score!! We're starting our own movement...it's called OccupyYellowCoat. So far we have to people onboard but willing to recruit more :^). It was a nice experience for the kids...We are going to try to do some sort of service project every holiday season.

Now...on to the meat of this post.

Christmas....such a wonderful time for many...such a stressful time for many more. Our family has definitely had our fair share of both. In years past, we have definitely over-spent on presents for our kids....just heaping junk on top of junk that ends up being meaningless. A few years ago...Chrissy and I came to a decision...
Let's slow it down....let's buy just a few things for the kids, and let's commit to making one thing for each of them ourselves. Past home-made gifts have included painting/cooking aprons, musical instruments, a toy wooden musket. This year, our home-made toy wasn't a "from scratch" product as much as it was a refurbished piece that my folks had grabbed from a yard sale:

An old-school puppet theatre.

My mom and dad had found this thing at a yard sale a few years ago for like 5 bucks. It's definitely home-made. And whoever fabricated this thing spent some time on it. It's very well made, with lots of little structural considerations that tell me that whoever designed/built this thing knew what they were doing and decided to take some extra steps to make it right. Notched shelving, rounded corners, proper bracing....this thing was built to last.
When we got it...our kids were much too young to be able to fully enjoy it so we stashed it in the back of our garage and kept it out of sight. Gavin and Ivy are getting older and play so well together...it just seemed right that this was the year to put some work into this thing and bring it back to life....here's where I am so far:
Before:


After: cleaned, sanded, primed, and ready for new paint:



Not quite sure what kind of paint job I'm going to put on this thing....perhaps some country-cool scene a la Lancaster County, PA with rolling hills and farmland...or perhaps some sort of sun/moon day/night mural...I'll have to wait until inspiration strikes. Chrissy plans to sew up some new curtains based on whatever theme I end up going with...I guess I'd better lock it down soon and get painting....

More to come.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

No Soap Radio

So...this blog is about sharing a Leo Family practice...making our own laundry soap. We've been making our own soap for about 4 years now, and I can't imagine ever going back to the store bought stuff. We're able to make the stuff for a FRACTION of what it costs to buy it. (I mean....what would cost you 7 or 8 bucks for a thing of Tide can be made for pennies...AND...it works just as well.) There's lots of parts of the process of making this soap that the kids can help out with, which is nice...It's all natural...not to say that you could sit and drink it but...it contains no artificial dyes or fragrances...now, that being said, it's important to note that this soap does not have ANY scent...so, if you LOVE your clothes coming out of the laundry smelling like "Spring Rain" or "Honeysuckle Blossoms" well then...I don't know what to tell you (actually...more on this in a minute).
Before I lay down the recipe/process, let me just say that I am definitely not taking credit for this....there are hundreds of variations of this same basic recipe all over the Internet. I have tweaked my own recipe to a degree, which has never let me down (even in taking care of the "funkiest" cloth diaper). It works great as a pre-treater, as well. Some folks have asked me if it works in front loading washers....which I do not have....but I DO know that I've seen an episode of The Duggar's where they make laundry soap using a very similar recipe...and they use front loading washers so I'll assume that it's o.k. but if you have a front loader, you may want to do a bit more research. Alright...here's how it's done (at least in our home):

You will need these dry ingredients:


Fels Naptha bar soap
Borax
Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda
(the handsome 4 year old is optional :^)
*remember when I said that the soap has no scent? Well, I've seen some recipes where people add some essential oils....maybe lavender or tea tree oil. We don't do this, so I wouldn't know how much to tell you to add but I'm sure that you could dig around online and find out more.
**Also I should note that not all of these ingredients are carried in every grocery store....you may need to check around....I know that Market Basket has all 3 ingredients...but you can talk to your grocery store manager and they can start to carry these items in your local grocery store if you request them. I did this at the Price Chopper in Webster.

This recipe yields 3 gallons of soap at a time and is a slightly more concentrated soap than most of what I've seen elsewhere online. We need a strong laundry soap around here...we work hard...we play hard...we poop hard.

Wow...that was gross. let's just move on.

You will also need:
A big cooking Pot
1 wooden spoon
1 cup measuring cup
cheese grater
big plastic bucket (preferably with a lid w/ a pour spout)
Something to mix up the soap with (more on this later)

Here's a pic of the first 2 steps:


STEP 1: Fill the big cooking pot about 2/3 of the way with water and cover...bring to a boil. It doesn't matter exactly how much water is in the pot because you are basically going to cook up a concentrate that you will later add to more water to bring it up to the correct final volume of 3 gallons.
STEP 2: Grate the entire bar of Fels Naptha using the largest side of the cheese grater (watch those knuckles). When you are done grating, you should have a pile of something that more or less looks like this:



Step 3: Once the water boils, roll back the heat to medium and add the grated Fels Naptha. At this point you are going to have to stay pretty close to the pot....as there is a tendency for this stuff to boil over if left unattended. Use the wooden spoon and stir, stir, stir until the Fels Naptha is melted. Keep an eye on the heat...if the boil gets too aggressive, tone the heat down.
STEP 4: Once the Fels Naptha is melted, add 1 cup of the borax (slowly...adding it too fast can cause it to bubble over) and stir, stir, stir until the mixture feels fluid and not grainy at all.

Ivy getting ready to measure out some stuff.

Step 5: add 1 cup of the A&H Super Washing Soda in the same manner as the Borax.

Once the mixture is fluid with no graininess at all, kill the heat. Let it sit in the pot a minute.

Step 6: Add a gallon or so of COLD water to the bucket that you will be storing the soap in. Our bucket looks like this:

The fact that it has a pour spout on top is key. It makes the process so much easier. i think that this bucket used to carry Drive Train Oil...I think we got it from some local machine shop. At any rate, you should be able to pick up something similar at Home Depot or whatever.
STEP 7: Add the completed soap concentrate to the cold water in the bucket. Stir. I marked the 3 gallon volume on my bucket with a Sharpie so, at this point, I just use more cold water to fill the bucket to the right height.
STEP 8: Stick the lid back on the bucket...let sit for 12/24 hours.

After you let the soap sit...it basically sets up into a big gelatinous mass (kind of like when you refrigerate real turkey gravy...you know, all wiggly and gross?)
Now...here comes one of the last steps...breaking up this mass into a liquid. Now, keep in mind that this is not going to become a syrupy blue liquid like store-bought stuff, but rather a pale-yellow, kind of watery, kind of chunky slop. But, no worries, because it is all good once it's in the washing machine doing it's job.

STEP 9: Mixing up the soap.
I used to just use a large wooden stick to swish around and break up the chunks as best as I could. It worked o.k. but I was constantly clogging up the pour spout of the bucket with globby chunks that were too big to fit through. About 2 years ago, I switched to this contraption and life got much easier:

What you've got here is a big cordless drill with an attachment that is designed to mix up 5 gallon buckets of paint (can be found at any Home Improvement or Paint store) being wielded by a feisty 2 year old. Now..if you go this route, keep this in mind:
Make sure that the chuck (or, in layman's terms: the part where the drill bit goes into) of the drill will open up large enough to accept whatever stirring attachment that you decide to go with. I have 3 drills, and my stirrer only will fit onto 1 of them. Mix until it is as fluid as you can get it.
STEP 10: Keeping the Soap.
It is quite heavy and cumbersome to pour the soap from the big bucket right into the washer every time so I have kept a couple of old Tide bottles that I fill with my soap (this is where the pour spout on the bucket is KEY). Some folks might use empty milk jugs.
Some folks might make smaller batches of soap and not have to worry about this step at all.

Use it in the same amount that you would use store bought stuff.

And there you have it. Now...all that being said...if you ask 100 people who make laundry soap how they do it...you will probably get 100 different answers. It all comes down to how much you need, how strong you want it to be, and what you will be using it for. This recipe that we use has taken several years to fine tune.

I've never sat down and figured out on exact cost analysis of what I save by making this but, I can tell you that a bar of Fels Naptha costs about a buck-fifty. The Washing Soda and Borax cost about $3 a box, and each box probably has 12-15 cups in each...so...I figure that, give or take, I can make 3 gallons of my stuff for under 2 bucks....whereas it would cost me upwards of 30-40 bucks to buy the same amount at a store. That's savings I can't pass up.

I certainly believe that, for my family, making our own soap is something that helps us stay in obedience of the many scriptures about being skilled, resourceful, and good stewards of our money and time. It is something that my family does together...it is (most times) a blessing rather than a chore. I hope that you give it a shot and reap the same benefits (and $avings as our family has).

Happy Soaping.

Friday, November 25, 2011

Catching Up and Calming Down

So, it's been almost a month since my last post.....something that hasn't happened in the 1 1/2 years that this blog has existed. It's been quite a crazy couple of months for our family. Since getting back from our trip to Lancaster County, PA in early October we've had: another trip for Chrissy and the kids to NJ, a cold/sickness that's been hanging around strong for almost a month, and a freak early-season snowstorm that knocked out power to us for 4 days (and others in our area for over a week). It's been challenging enough to keep our collective heads above water, never mind trying to keep a blog going....but I'm back on the train starting right now...as this Winter season comes on us...it's a time for our family to slow down, to reconnect and to prepare for the coming year.
In my last post, we talked about getting ready for our "Light The Night" family Halloween outreach....well...that never happened, because on October 30, our area was blanketed under 6 inches of the heaviest, wettest snow you have ever seen, leaving us and thousands of others without power. Thankfully we were prepared and able to stay calm, warm, and fed thanks to our wood burning stove, propane oven, and gas-powered generator. Our town had postponed trick-or-treating to almost a week later, on the following Friday....but Chrissy and the kids would be in New Jersey at that time celebrating our Niece Brenna's 16th birthday and out nephew's 5th birthday....so we gave all our candy to the local relief shelter to share with the kids who were staying there with their families to weather the storm. We did still manage to get the kids dressed in their costumes, if only to visit one of our neighborsm who we are very close with, to get a treat amidst the snowstorm:
Our Little Farmers.

Tonight's post is going to be a quick one....but I'm committing to getting back into a regular rhythm. within the next few days, posts will be up on:
- Home-made laundry soap recipe and process: I've got several requests from friends on how to make this stuff.....long story short: We've been making our own laundry soap for years based on a recipe that I found online (which I've made several changes to).. The stuff works better than Tide, is all natural, and costs less than 3% of anything you'd buy in a store.
- A Leo Family Thanksgiving (featuring another year with my wonderful 90 year old grandmother at our table:^)
- The Leo family coat drive.

Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving....we'll be in touch.

The Leo's


- Our backyard, 10/30/11....crazy.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Light The Night Prep Work

So....last year, I posted a blog about what our family, as a Bible-believing Christian family, had decided to do with Halloween. Many Christian families dismiss this "holiday" altogether and have no part of it. You can read here to get our family's take on it:

http://findtheblueheron.blogspot.com/2010/11/hallo-whaaaaat.html


last night and tonight...we got ready for this years "Light The Night" celebration.

last night, we carved ourselves a pumpkin...for the last 2 years, Gavin has designed our pumpkin. last year....he gave us the "Bob-o-Lantern"...this year...we let him design it, but let Ivy name it....




Ladies and gentlemen....the "Jenny-o-Lantern"...crack-tastic.

So tonight...we started by decorating labels that I had made up with Bible verses on them:




...filling bags with candy....



...stopping for a snack....


...and ending up with about 150 bags of candy wrapped with God's Saving Word:


Our goal is pretty simple....to not hide, but offer God's word to those who come on our land to get candy. To not shove it down their throats, but get in the mix and to prayerfully seek The Lord's leading...should there be someone who needs to hear the Word that night...that we may be unashamed and full of The Spirit....or if they come by only to get candy...so be it. We pray for Godly discernment. One thing that I love is that my son is unashamed to ask a peer if "they love Jesus". It blesses me to hear him ask that of a new found acquaintance at the playground or to the new kid in the neighborhood....I wouldn't be the least surprised if he was called to preach the Word.
Come trick-or-treat night...we'll have our hot buttered cider out..warming in the yard on the camping stove...available to warm the loins of the parents leading their kids around...as well as a bonfire going in the front yard. Our goal is not to one-up anyone else...but to simply be a soft-yet-noticeable presence within our neighborhood. To quietly spread comfort, connection, and the Word of God.

Sometimes you are called to sow...sometimes to reap...Halloween might bring a bit of both.
Tonight was just about a perfect night with the family...and....oh yeah....it snowed:


Beba came out to enjoy the flakes with the kids....in his socks.....
Then we got warm beside the fire:



"..Praise the mount, I'm fixed upon it.
mount of Thy redeeming Love."

Sunday, October 23, 2011

A Horse is a Horse, of course, of course

When we were vacationing in Lancaster County, PA....right up the road from our campground, there was an Amish home...and right next to the driveway was a fenced in horse stable/riding rink that stretched right up to the road. There was a little boy, no more than 8 years old, who had a small horse that he would ride on all the time....some kids ride scooters, skateboards, or 2 wheeled bikes....this kid rode a small horse. I must have seen him on it a dozen times during our trip. So did Gavin.
Our boy took an immediate shine to the horses which peppered the countryside of Lancaster County and, during the harvest season, were all over the fields, hitched to various threshing, mowing, and harvesting equipment, under the lead and direction of many young Amish boys. Being the natural leader that we are seeing our boy emerge to be....it seemed natural that he'd take an immediate interest in those Amish boys who held control of these horse teams.
Upon our return to MA, Gavin still showed an amazing interest in horses. We told him how his mama and I saw wild horses (Mustangs) running wild on the beaches of the Outer Banks, NC and he became even more intrigued. We went to the library and he took out a half dozen books on Mustangs and other horses. He was hooked.
The Lord...seeing all of this...decided to hook us up big time.
My father had an old acquaintance whom he had reconnected with a few years ago and kept in sporadic contact with over the last few years. This man, Mr. Jack Scott, owns "Blessings Farm" in Charlton, MA. which provides riding instruction and horse-keeping direction to kids who would normally not be able to afford it. The way Mr. Scott puts it: "Everyone loves horses. Little kids, who have never seen a horse in real life, are drawn to them and they can't even explain why. They keep pictures of them on their wall and dream of riding horses. Learning to ride and care for horses should not only be for the rich but for any of those kids who have an active interest." Mr. Scott is one of those men of God that, after meeting, you walk away from feeling so fulfilled and blessed and inspired.
This afternoon, Mr. Scott invited us to his farm to meet some of his horses.




The Scott's keep 10 horses on their farm. We met about 4 of them including this absolutely amazing horse names "Abi" (she's pictured in the middle and bottom picture). Abi is a 24 year old Arabian who is absolutely gorgeous. Her countenance around children was something amazing to behold. Now....I had very little preconceived notions about what today would hold. Here's, in order of levels of realistic expectation, what I'd hoped would happen today:
A: Gavin and Ivy would get to pet and/or brush a horse
B: Gavin would get to briefly sit on a horse
C: Gavin would get to be led around on a horse for a lap or two by Mr. Scott.

Never, in a million years, did I expect to witness what actually went down.


We saddled Abi and took her down to Mr. Scott's indoor riding rink (which, just the fact that it exists is a miracle in itself. I won't give away the story but, there is no mistake that this place is called Blessings Farm.) When The Lord puts His blessing into something, there is nothing, no act of man, that can stop His might hand. Hearing how this riding arena got built and the obstacles that were overcome in it's construction was a true testimony to the providence of God. At any rate...Gavin WAS able to mount her:


Mr. Scott led him around on Abi for a full lap and a half and then, when they were both down the far end of the rink, we could hear Mr. Scott talking to Gavin but couldn't hear what was being said.

Chrissy and I were thinking that perhaps Mr. Scott was giving Gavin some history about the horse. Either that, or he was correcting Gavin, in his infinite Alpha- Male persona, on some overly-aggressive actions....we couldn't have been more wrong. Mr. Scott, who is one of the most patient men that I have ever met in my life, was instructing Gavin on how to control and lead Abi on his own.
2 minutes later....we saw this:

and then this:

and this:

and this:


for the better part of 30 minutes, Gavin led this horse...weaving her around the rink, around us and then back down towards the far end and back again...over and over and over. I was in utter disbelief. Mr. Scott had told us that Abi was an exceptional horse in that she was so in tune with the youngest and most inexperienced riders, but then, when mounted with a professional rider, could manipulate barrel-racing obstacles like she was shot out of a cannon. I was almost brought to tears watching my son connect with this beautiful animal. While he was mounted...we talked about "dominion" and how The Lord gave us these animals to work along side us....to help us accomplish tasks while we cared for their needs. This was a beautiful afternoon on so many levels.
Ivy even got a turn:


She was fearless. Ivy has had an affinity towards animals her whole life. I know that most kids like the idea of animals...but Ivy has such an interest in them. She wants to pet every animal she sees. She talks about them all the time. She pretends that she's a kitten 86% of her waking hours. I wouldn't be surprised at all if she found her life's work along side animals.

It was a wonderful day...far exceeding my expectations. It's amazing when you meet a fellow brother in The Lord who has submitted to Him and is doing The Lord's work. You get to see the may facets that The Lord calls us to. To some, it's direct ministry: pastoral, counseling, theology. To others, it's public service and loving the unloved. To some others, it's homeschooling and training up the future generations.
And for others, it's something unique.....like keeping horses and inviting scores of children to learn to ride, keep, and care for these amazing animals...and not "the elite"...but regular, everyday kids of hard-working, blue-collar parents. Mr. Scott has made it very clear that horses should be for everyone who has the desire...not just those who can afford it.
Today was one of those things that you probably couldn't fully appreciate without being there yourself....which you can be: Blessings Farm in Charlton, MA....ask for Mr. Jack Scott.

That farm is the most aptly named place I've ever been to.

Monday, October 17, 2011

Leo Family in Lancaster County Photo Dump

Some random shots from our trip that didn't fit into the other blogs:


There's "Cozy" and then there's "Camper Cozy"...guess which one this is?


The "Pantry". Notice how the entire top shelf is medical supplies. We were prepared to treat minor scrapes and burns, gunshot wounds, and everything in between.


Gazebo Rain Dance!! Behind the kids is the "bridge" that "MillBridge Camp Resort" gets part of its name...despite the fact that it was all borded up and looked like it was one 30 mph wind gust way from being reduced to kindling.


I put the "Der" in "Wonderland".


Here's "The Bean"...booger-nose and all...but pleasant as can be. Notice our fishing gear leaning up against the tree behind her. it didn't get much use....the only thing we found in the "Fishing pond" was an old boot......and a flip-flop. I wish I were kidding.


There's nothing like a battle-scarred, well-rested, armed 4 year old. WOLVERINES!!!


We don't let our kids play with fire....just near it ;^)

Some random campground silliness:







Last but not least...I give you....the only pay phone in Lancaster County: